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  • Reading Dream Count by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

    December 20th, 2025

    It is three, an hour to four in the evening and just the right time to get myself a cup of tea as I cosy up to a warm throw blanket. I finished reading Dream Count by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie.

    Before you read on, can I ask you a question? My assumption is that you want me to get to the point, and so I will ask you, “what does a book demand from a reader?”

    This question has been on my mind having got mixed reviews from fellow readers on this book, and the usual pendulum of thoughts on this- some say it’s amazing, others that it wasn’t all that, some they never finished reading it (the dreaded DNF) and then those who say it’s not like her other works.

    And on the last comment, yes- this is nothing like her other works, this is a book that stands on it’s own, the Chimamanda who wrote it is not in the same mental, psychological or physical state she was in while writing Americanah, it’s 2025 for heaven’s sake and on that is where I ask myself, “should an author’s works embody the same kind of feeling, voice, tone across their writing life?” I sincerely hope not, because with this book I was immersed in the lives of four women who were being sculpted by their parents’ expectations, their dreams, their experiences, their desire to love and be loved- to be chosen, put first, applauded…and through all these experiences they were losing bits of themselves, the sense of knowing, a clarity of what it is they seek- and that in itself was like grieving.

    In reading this it was interesting how Chiamaka was seen as the whimsical one who built castles in the air and had her parents money to blow, Zikora the lawyer and rational one who always said things as they were, Omelogor the bold and fearless one with a body that men died for and who could literally face the devil and have a drink with him unscathed, and finally Kaditou- the sweet, naive, loving and tender one- who dared to dream and work herself to the bone for the life she desired for her daughter.

    One of my favorite lines from the book:

    “Binta. Binta was born dreaming, always talking of other places, other worlds, where girls went to school and clean water gushed from taps. She walked in quick steps, as if holding back an enormous hunger to burst free; she did everything fast, she quivered with the restlessness of unhatched dreams.“

    Dream Count is not flamboyant. The way I took this book in was that it does not demand the red carpet roll out, because I could see these women everywhere I looked- I could see the questions on marriage, child birth, on finding the right man, keeping the man satisfied, on wanting to travel, to speak, question and explore uncertainties without being pinned down by societies expectations. So, yes…it is vivid, the writing pace varies and there are characters that jump out of the page like Binta, Omelogor…stupid Darnell! Or the never ending meddling Aunties…

    I am glad I finally got to read this book and somehow on the whole scheme of labels and the human fascination with ranges, I find this sitting steady somewhere between a 3 and 4 star at a 3.5 star rating. Now forget my rambling and go read the book...

  • My top 5 grocery store items

    December 19th, 2025

    I do my grocery shopping as rarely as I get to visit the market, however when I do, the following have to be in my cart:

    1. Garlic
    2. Capsicum/ bell peppers (those green ones- or better known as pili pili hoho in Kenya)
    3. Tomatoes
    4. Pineapple slices
    5. Vegetables – one bunch of sukumawiki, or managu.
    the photo has nothing to do with the list because I don’t love cabbage and buns.
  • Cities I’d love to visit

    December 15th, 2025

    I have been saying this for years and now that I think of it, there are three cities that I would love to visit.

    For the history, vibrant culture, colors, fabric- because I love my fabric as bold and colorful as Africa, and then the food and the people.

    Accra

    Morroco: On this I could have said Rabat, but there is so much that I would love to see, experience and even more about the writers and the stories from this county.

    Bangkok

  • I hope they say that…

    December 14th, 2025

    I was love

    Light

    Kind

    I saw them for who they were

    They laughed when I was with them

    They got to do the most beautiful, life changing things because I inspired, challenged, dared or slightly nudged them.

    They loved reading my books

    They would love to experience life with me in it again.

  • December Updates on reading, writing and life

    December 7th, 2025

    It’s the seventh day of December 2025 and I am here thinking of all that has happened this year.

    First, I did get to publish The Longest Way Home after revising and rewriting it for a year!

    Second, my reading goal on Goodreads for this year was 100 books and so far I am at 65, looking forward to setting aside a day and updating the books I read on Netgalley as well since this year they ceased that partnership and it means manually adding the books.

    I recently just finished reading Yinka, Where is your Huzband? by Lizzie Damilola Blcakburn and Yellowface by Rebecca Kuang. Two different books with very bright covers- and focusing on young women going through different relatable issues. I am currently doing my best not to grind my teeth or clench my fist as I read God of Malice by Rina Kent.

    I have had a rich year in terms of the books I have bought, read and even enjoyed along the way. I have also had rich experiences at work- working with a large team, making more decisions, co-creating solutions with young people and traveling to different countries across the East Africa region- and as the year ends, so does my engagement with the organization and I look forward to the next part of my journey.

    On health, well…the greatest scare and being ushered into emergency trauma response and frequent hospitalization has only made me more grateful for being able to keep my head above water. It’s the only time my Mom’s almost lost her sanity and it’s been a blessing to bounce back better, stronger and happier.

    So here’s the rest of a beautiful week in December, and many more writing escapades.

  • Oh Stardust…

    December 6th, 2025

    Yes.

    In Nairobi- a short drive to Athi River and you meet Giraffes, Dik Diks, Zebras grazing and crossing the road.

  • Depends

    December 2nd, 2025

    There are days when I am the perfect night owl getting a lot done, studies right, cleaning the house, decluttering, dancing and having coffee refills and simply loving the silence that comes with night.

    Then there are those days where it’s nothing but sunrise, the dawn…of wanting to be up by 5am, and getting out of bed and doing stuff…just like that.

    So am I a night or day person?

    The truth is, it depends.

  • Two favorite things to wear

    November 30th, 2025

    A smile

    Handcrafted earrings

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  • More than One

    November 13th, 2025
    Daily writing prompt
    What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever found (and kept)?
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    There are more than one cool thing that I have found and kept- well I will also include the Luron body products that I use, stationery that are so irresistible that I can barely part ways with a notebook that I love- as square and dotted as it is with a blush leather cover.

    I also love the insulated thermo mug I got from Ziwa, this cute portable beside lamp- the perfect companion while reading at night, this cute shopping basket I got from Urembo Crafts Kenya.

  • Routine I try to skip every morning

    November 12th, 2025

    I should start by saying that I really try to skip these but fail as often as two days or three days after:

    1. Checking my email first thing in the morning.
    2. Spreading the bed first- sometimes I spread the bed after I’ve had a shower, sometimes I leave the duvet bundled up and snuggle in after getting a cup of coffee- this happens a lot over the weekends.
    3. Working out- those early morning stretches- I struggle.
    4. Drinking coffee before the I leave the house.
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